Once a girl got hurt, she wont ever forget the day, the person and how it happened. I assure you she will forgive that person in time but will never ever forget what happened that day.
Every girls mistake:
She easily falls in love without even thinking it twice.
She believes every promises he swears.
She assumes that she’s the only one that guy talks to.
She expects too much.
She gives too much.
Every guys mistake:
He takes her for granted.
He takes advantage of her weakness.
He promises a lot.
He’s pride is bigger than his balls.
He say’s sorry and then he leaves.
The Beginning:
A guy would tell her that he likes her so much. And when the girl fell in love so bad, the guy would tell her the things he’ll do for her. A guy would make a girl believe that he’s not like the other man. He’ll ask for something and she wont even ?hesitate to give it in an instant. This is all wrong!
At the END:
When they got into misunderstanding, fight or even break ups. A guy you used to knew that he was your everything turned out to be a soap bubble. Suddenly you’ll gain a super powers “The invincible” He wont even notice you, tries to ignores you. The guy who told you he was not like everyone else turned out to be just like one of them.
Moving on,Get over it:
There are lots of ways how to move on. The very first thing you need to do is:
Lock yourself in your most comfortable zone, if you feel like crying then do it. Think about the things what went wrong, was it your fault? If yes, then accept it. At this point of momentum you will remember everything as if everything goes back form the time you met that person. My best advice: Just cry your heart out. It helps a lot. You might dehydrate your self at that time but at least you’ll get better after.
After that day, list all the things you want to do. Be with friends who knows about your situation. Hang out with them in a crowded place and have fun. Next, Keep your self busy for the next few days. Make your self unavailable, do the things you really want because now is your chance to have time for yourself. You must feel exhausted at the end of the day so when you go to bed you’ll easily fall asleep and you wont have the time to think about the unnecessary things.
For the next couple of weeks, you wont even noticed that you’ve already moved on. Somehow, You’ll miss the person, but you will never take one step back to let that guy hurt you again. At this point, you’ve already learned a lot. Maintaining happiness is your next goal. Fulfill your dreams, stay tough and strong! :)
For every wound, there is a scar. And every scar tells a story. A story that says: I survived.
-EmpressMyrthe, my life is a sweet misery!
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